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Political commentary and general frivolity.
"She judges you when you use poor grammar." -- David Lat, Above The Law
"Ms. Nichols is one of many young people throwing off her generation’s reputation for slovenly language." -- Bob Morris, NYT
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What do you mean when you say that to call something "gay" is a compliment? Isn't it that there is a positive/negative connotation attached to the word, to any degree, what people find offensive?
People generally use it as a negative adjective, but I was distinguishing my own interpretation of it. I LOVE gay people, and to call something "gay" translates as "fabulous" in my head.
Sidenote: I really, really want a gay best friend.
I found that scene in "Legally Blonde" wrong on several levels. It engages in essentialism about masculinity and promotes stereotypes the qualities of being gay. It promotes the idea that all men who are interested in fashion are gay and vice versa. Coupled with the portrayal of the feminist activist, jocky, unkempt lesbian character, this movie's treatment of gayness is tired. When you say you want a gay best friend, does that mean you want a buddy like Jack from "Will and Grace" or Stanford/Anthony from "Sex and the City"? Because, then, you too, are also guilty of engaging in stereotypes. Like straight people, gay people come in all shapes, sizes, and personalities. For every "fabulous" "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy"-type of gay male, there are hoardes bodybuilding, hypermasculine, "straight"-appearing gay men. For every activist, butchy woman, there are hoardes of fashionable, feminine, Elle Woods-types of gay women. When the privileged straight majority finally wakes up to the idea that gay people are just like them save for the dimension of sexual preference, then we will be a little closer to achieving equality.
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